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by oh Siong
Thu Sep 03, 2020 12:44 pm
Forum: Working With Your Child
Topic: All About Parenting Teenagers
Replies: 389
Views: 88624

Re: All About Parenting Teenagers

Do you have any suggestion that we can try to reverse this situation? i think, probably a few things happening to her now. hormones changes are real (and scary) Social environment of hers changed ( i assume 13, she entered secondary school) from oldest in primary school, to youngest in secondary sc...
by oh Siong
Thu Aug 27, 2020 9:34 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Where to seek Marital Help
Replies: 44
Views: 43928

Re: Where to seek Marital Help

there are many places that offer marital/couple counselling i believe, sometimes when individuals are caught in such a toxic relationship, they might have blind side to what they are trying to deal with. Hence, can always consult a professional, to hear how they assess your situation. For me, actual...
by oh Siong
Wed Aug 26, 2020 10:05 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: How to handle your children when they start to be rebellious
Replies: 17
Views: 3876

Re: How to handle your children when they start to be rebellious

usually they start with small cues. like coming back late..keeping to themselves

hence, i did share this tip which i posted on the link below

https://www.facebook.com/SGLoveTalks/po ... 0524719360

in short -- it means reconstruct trust..........
by oh Siong
Wed Aug 26, 2020 5:04 pm
Forum: Working With Your Child
Topic: All About Teaching Values
Replies: 469
Views: 153245

Re: All About Teaching Values

Don't let kids learn values from other people, values should start from us from our homes especially from unguided sources... which may include internet/friends/tv shows which is why, sometimes, simply watching tv with your child, allowing them to ask you questions, or just add in some reflective c...
by oh Siong
Wed Aug 26, 2020 3:18 pm
Forum: Working With Your Child
Topic: How to handle child who talked back
Replies: 86
Views: 22690

Re: How to handle child who talked back

when a child talks back / argues rudely, actually best is tell them i am stopping this conversation if you are going to be rude let them know that you are still in control, higher hierarchy from him/her but let the child know that you acknowledge his feelings (anger/frustration/sadness etc)..... but...
by oh Siong
Wed Aug 26, 2020 2:59 pm
Forum: Working With Your Child
Topic: Sibling Rivalry
Replies: 42
Views: 6647

Re: Sibling Rivalry

Both of them are very competitive...my son is in the national team and his academics is also very good he was in GEP at Nanyang Primary...my daughter is very good in dancing and figure skating and her academics is also very good she is in GEP at raffles Girls' Primary. So both of them, according to...
by oh Siong
Wed Aug 26, 2020 2:38 pm
Forum: Working With Your Child
Topic: Super stubborn child
Replies: 100
Views: 20970

Re: Super stubborn child

TimC_28 wrote:
Thu Aug 20, 2020 3:23 pm
Our youngest is very stubborn we don't know how to deal with her anymore
perhaps gain entry (buy in) via her love language?

i think i have shared this article b4, but maybe just cut and paste again.
for your reference.

https://www.lovetalks.info/connectingwithyourchild
by oh Siong
Fri Aug 07, 2020 11:50 am
Forum: Working With Your Child
Topic: All About Parenting Teenagers
Replies: 389
Views: 88624

Re: All About Parenting Teenagers

Varry wrote:
Thu Aug 06, 2020 11:17 am
Just wondering how to handle 'rebellious' stage? Any tips to share?
very broad question, but the generic answer i would suggest is

-remain unconditional in giving love/care/concern
-build trust , not doubts
-always be there when they fall and need support
by oh Siong
Wed Aug 05, 2020 11:54 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Do your kids play online game?
Replies: 170
Views: 60231

Re: Do your kids play online game?

My son (6yrs) and I play FIFA (football game) on PS4 almost 30minutes everyday. At first, I just wanted to have some fun time with him and also created some father-and-son bond. After some time, he started to gain lot of interests in football. So we started to play football together downstairs duri...