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by Fireflyserene
Sat Dec 22, 2012 12:59 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Husband drinks & stays out late - Does yours?
Replies: 450
Views: 130118

Re: Husband drinks & stays out late - Does yours?

Thanks twinkleLime & adonciaTang.
by Fireflyserene
Mon Dec 17, 2012 12:19 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Husband drinks & stays out late - Does yours?
Replies: 450
Views: 130118

Re: Husband drinks & stays out late - Does yours?

AdonciaTang, Sorry to hear about your childhood incident. Thanks for sharing it & I admire your courage & maturity(at such tender age). I t must have been hard on you. Infact I was feeling v depressed but I tell myself that I can't afford to as my child needs me... Although at times I do breakdown i...
by Fireflyserene
Sun Dec 16, 2012 4:31 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Husband drinks & stays out late - Does yours?
Replies: 450
Views: 130118

Re: Husband drinks & stays out late - Does yours?

My heart is 'bleeding' beyond words. Really appreciate all the kind consolation. Cfan, thks for sharing. I feel ur pain about the other party's action (mine:( tt wmn even create ultimum for H to 'threaten D' & .... (tears can't help dripping)....even when I try to "ignore" what I "knw about their af...
by Fireflyserene
Fri Dec 14, 2012 10:09 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Husband drinks & stays out late - Does yours?
Replies: 450
Views: 130118

Re: Husband drinks & stays out late - Does yours?

Hi Been away for past few months going thru many dramatic problems & emotional pains. Thanks all who have shared thoughts & words of encouragement. Sad to hear about so many wives experiencing similar situation & pain. H left us & "disappeared" for months....after causing deep deep pain to me (H eve...
by Fireflyserene
Wed May 16, 2012 4:47 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: How to salvage marriage
Replies: 27
Views: 12901

Re: How to salvage marriage

In my case, H been manipulative. Tried communicating & so call open talk, pretend not to know what H is doing outside, confronted his liar & unreasonable wired , showing concerns & talk senses etc... never solve real problem. H will at most apologise & 'commit' again. Ya, if I hv patience to stomach...
by Fireflyserene
Tue May 15, 2012 7:09 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: How to salvage marriage
Replies: 27
Views: 12901

Re: How to salvage marriage

[quote]raytan30 it is possible to salvage the marriage.. i am a good example. I had an affair when i was quite disillusioned with marriage then after that i learned wth just accept. so me and my wife went back to having sex again... which i never thought was possible frankly. of course til now she w...
by Fireflyserene
Tue May 08, 2012 11:41 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Husband drinks & stays out late - Does yours?
Replies: 450
Views: 130118

Re: Husband drinks & stays out late - Does yours?

I'm loss of words.... Thanks for all the well reminders. Really appreciate it. H keeps all his finanical documents locked and away, no access. As for money, cant expect H to contribute more (I'm also contributing financially to family). I'm working but lately facing health issue and may lost my job ...
by Fireflyserene
Tue May 08, 2012 1:03 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Husband drinks & stays out late - Does yours?
Replies: 450
Views: 130118

Re: Husband drinks & stays out late - Does yours?

Thanks all for your concern. I dont know why I still hangon. Maybe H always transfer blame. H always said initially that there is no issues even when H no return. H even said it is normal to drink till wee hours n most his Frds (whom H never get me involved) are like that n their wife no issues! So ...
by Fireflyserene
Thu May 03, 2012 12:40 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Husband drinks & stays out late - Does yours?
Replies: 450
Views: 130118

Re: Husband drinks & stays out late - Does yours?

H initially will try to give excuses (all sort of reasons) for no return or back at wee hrs to pacify me. But as times go by, H noted I still forgive or can't do anything abt it, H even unreasonably asked me if he can just leave home & us and don't want to be back anymore! Can spouse just leave as n...
by Fireflyserene
Thu May 03, 2012 12:26 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Husband drinks & stays out late - Does yours?
Replies: 450
Views: 130118

Re: Husband drinks & stays out late - Does yours?

Thanks for all the encouragement. Btw. My MIL has passed away yrs ago. Anyway, I can't confide in her since the day of marriage- cos initially when H drink n return late & we are 'quarrelled", MIL told me in front of H that man flirting outside (feng Chang zuo xi) never mind. When H went oversea MIL...