when the kids arrived, most of the time is focused on them. even now, time is revolved around my younger one. that spark has disappeared and it's really hard to find a common interest. Aiyo where got sparks. Maybe only during first 3 to 6 months of initial relationship after that I think my heartbe...

Somehow am having challenges in this area. There are no 3rd party, just have nothing much in common anymore. Perhaps add a little playfulness in your daily lives? Eg smack his butt when he is washing dishes, offer to hug him after he did some house chores and then purposely run away giggling becaus...

I chose to DIY. Huge savings versus engaging ID. Just the window grill alone ID mark up with a huge margin. I was quoted $5k+ by ID while direct factory price was half of that. For wetwork I feel that there is no need to engage ID because there is no design involved so purely mark up by ID for helpi...

I don't like the practice of some teachers communicating through whatapp. That gave kids an excuse that they need to constantly check their mobile phone but in actual fact 99% of the time is simply nonsence chat or spamming within group chat. Complete waste of time By the way, I don't think that tea...

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I dolled up daughter because she looked like a boy when she was about 1-2 year old. that's the beauty having a girl. most of the time, I was in the children's department. those dresses are so pretty and cute. I don't doll up my girls. Mainly just tees and skorts/pants when they were toddlers. Those...

Totally agree that the elder kid can usually be a little helper. Dont underestimate them . I dont have maid and take care of kids mostly myself. It is not easy, especially the emotions side for me, but doable. I think the role at home has changed between me and my first born child. Not suddenly but...

I'm not too concerned with aging flats. Once lease up return to HDB lor. I won't be around by then anyway. Our generation won't outlive HDB 99 year lease even if your flat's lease commenced in 1970s. Location is more important to me. Compared to a brand new flat in ulu location I would rather have a...

finished watching 花游记 quite nice leh although a lot of holes in plot haha

My niece travelled ALONE to Europe for 1 month after her A levels. She is so daring! I won’t allow DS to travel alone for 1 month overseas at 18yo. When I asked her how she ensure her safety, she told me she carries penknife all the time. :faint: I wouldn't allow that either! How did her parents fe...