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Postby mama_g » Wed Feb 16, 2011 2:11 pm


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Postby micollh » Wed Feb 16, 2011 2:19 pm

poor children.. but i guess it's hard for us to understand why the father would do this, maybe he feels the children are not behaving..thus using this method will "discipline" them.. but they r so young still.. need to go to this extend ?

really hard to accept.

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Postby LOLMum » Wed Feb 16, 2011 2:30 pm

not everyone knows how to be a parent and thus the lack of parenting skills would be passed down from one generation to another.

it is sad that some of them are so busy putting food on the table that kids are neglected.

the two kids (though faces are not shown) do look very adorable.

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Postby verykiasu2010 » Wed Feb 16, 2011 2:35 pm

should bring it to the attention of MCYS to do something
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Postby micollh » Wed Feb 16, 2011 2:38 pm

It's considered child abuse too right? for not providing proper accomodation even for one or two nights to your own kids.. cos if maid was left in corridoor, police catch the employer too..

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Postby shirley.tamzil » Wed Feb 16, 2011 3:01 pm

Felt sad for the children and also the father. He's quite helpless and desperate when it comes to his children. Hopefully, the relevant authorities will try to help them since this is being highlighted in the news.

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Postby 30plus » Wed Feb 16, 2011 6:09 pm

Don't understand the immigration system. I guess they do not let the children in because their mother is Indonesian. But sooner or later, they will be able to come. Why not give them proper education? If they grow up with very poor education, it becomes a problem for another generation. And, I think we are short of children, isn't it?

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Postby mama_g » Thu Feb 17, 2011 11:28 am

Trying to control my tears when i read the below sentence.. how hurt breaking it is:

The girl said: "I thought he was going to beat me. Instead, he went on his knees, gave me the Vitagen and begged me to swear not to go home."

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Postby fussyMummy » Thu Feb 17, 2011 2:46 pm

家家有本难念的经... :(

There might be some hidden issues which not reported...

:offtopic: Just like an incident , a girl who age 12 plus had a lot of boyfriends.. but according to her mum she is a very nice girl who with good behaviour....

Whatever is, children always be the one who suffer... even with lack attention/caring ; or overload of tuition .................;

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