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prc woman forced sec 3 bf to marry her

Postby LOLMum » Wed Sep 07, 2011 11:04 pm

A Chinese national woman had reportedly forced her boyfriend, a local secondary three boy to marry her.

The woman is 26, holds a student pass and is in Singapore to study, while the sec three boy comes from a comfortable background and is an introvert.

The two were introduced to each other at a friend's birthday party and had exchanged phone numbers. Because she sported youthful looks and a babyface, the boy did not suspect that she was in fact 11 years older than him.

Soon after their first meeting, the woman courted the boy aggressively with messages and online chats. The two soon progressed to become a couple.

Three to four months later, the woman initiated sex with the boy. After the two became intimate, she began to pressure him to marry her.

The boy did not know what to do and in the end asked his parents for help.

This case was cited by a counsellor as an example of another tactic used by Chinese national women to snag Singaporean husbands. Besides matchmaking and introductions through friends and relatives, some Chinese national women use student passes to look for husbands in Singapore.

These women, sometimes girls as young as 17, may get pregnant with a Singaporean boyfriend and insist on marriage.

According to the counsellor, some of these women marry to acquire Singaporean citizenship, then use it as a stepping board to go to US or Australia.

Source: Lianhe Wanbao, 5 September 2011. Click here for the Chinese report.

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i really dont know what to say. first the husband now the son, who is gonna be next on the list.
:mad:

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Re: prc woman forced sec 3 bf to marry her

Postby JonC » Wed Sep 07, 2011 11:37 pm

SIGH!!!

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Re: prc woman forced sec 3 bf to marry her

Postby verykiasu2010 » Wed Sep 07, 2011 11:42 pm

the reverse also true leh - DOM goes to china to dupe the pretty lady to come to singapore to work as karaoke hostess, to service all kind of men in SG ..... also middle-age men with not much qualification, low income, also go PRC, Vietnam, Thailand, Indo to find wives ...... and got ill treated in SG.....

"buyers" beware....better to teach the right values to our kids
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Re: prc woman forced sec 3 bf to marry her

Postby LOLMum » Wed Sep 07, 2011 11:46 pm

boy is sec 3 which means he is not 16 yet and she is an adult. isnt this rape? why isnt she charged in court?

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Re: prc woman forced sec 3 bf to marry her

Postby Jennifer » Thu Sep 08, 2011 7:07 am

LOLMum wrote:i really dont know what to say. first the husband now the son, who is gonna be next on the list.
:mad:


Pple in desperate situations resort to all sort of tactic so that they can get out of the poverty cycle :scared:

Hopefully, the future Sg generation need not take such measures.

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Re: prc woman forced sec 3 bf to marry her

Postby Jennifer » Thu Sep 08, 2011 7:09 am

LOLMum wrote:boy is sec 3 which means he is not 16 yet and she is an adult. isnt this rape? why isnt she charged in court?


The Chinese report link is missing.

Is the counsellor sharing an old incident?

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Re: prc woman forced sec 3 bf to marry her

Postby Flowermonaster » Thu Sep 08, 2011 7:16 am

Jennifer wrote:
LOLMum wrote:boy is sec 3 which means he is not 16 yet and she is an adult. isnt this rape? why isnt she charged in court?


The Chinese report link is missing.

Is the counsellor sharing an old incident?

So desperate! The boy is so young & still a student. How is he going to support her if they really got married? Is she going to support him instead or expecting the boy's parents to do so? Dont know what on earth she is thinking!!! :?

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Re: prc woman forced sec 3 bf to marry her

Postby phtthp » Thu Sep 08, 2011 7:26 am

better alert all our sons of China girls with tricks up their sleeves ...

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Re: prc woman forced sec 3 bf to marry her

Postby Flowermonaster » Thu Sep 08, 2011 8:10 am

phtthp wrote:better alert all our sons of China girls with tricks up their sleeves ...

Nowadays, we get more worries having boys than girls with such people around! :cry:

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Re: prc woman forced sec 3 bf to marry her

Postby limlim » Thu Sep 08, 2011 8:46 am

LOLMum wrote:boy is sec 3 which means he is not 16 yet and she is an adult. isnt this rape? why isnt she charged in court?


maybe statutory rape doesn't apply to male? :evil:

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