insider wrote:The Book:
父母恩重难报经 – 证严法师
Hi, thanks for the recommendation.
Next book on my list to collect.
insider wrote:After understanding the relationship (with full internalization which I am only at the beginning level), then everything will fall into place, be it that your parent is a murderer or if your child turns up to be a murderer (extreme case), you get to accept and forgive and live on without destroying anyone, incl yourself.
insider wrote:A lot of changes we want to see in our children have to begin with the step of we change ourselves first but unfortunately, we have blind spots that we can't see ourselves and keep thinking that we are Ok and the kids are rot (the kids may have the same thinking as us that we are rot and they are not).
This is soo soo true...
It is a difficult time for me now esp when my house is facing those spiritual things and we are kinda affected. Tried fengshui, taoist methods but the spirit just comes to disturb my boys every night, plus DS1 got the 'third eye' so can see how 'it' looks like. Am so...uurrggghh... Think it's also affecting my inner peace and energy level.
Sometimes just wondering if everything of this is explained by karma and cyclical effect.