Chenonceau wrote:Maybe you broke up because one went and the other did not... There are plenty of opportunities regionally. She just got offered a one month stint in China... allowance, food and lodging.. We are waiting and praying. Last thing we wanna do is to think that the traditional pathways are best... Oxford, Cambridge, Harvard... tried and tested, but maybe God has better plans.
We really like this boy. Talk about husband material... this is one. We aren't saying "Don't go". It's just such a big decision that all perspectives matter... and the 2 youths have their perspectives too.
How can anyone goes wrong with such "level headed" thinking
parents , Chenonceau- your DS/DD is so blessed to be your child.