Can this kind of mum be accepted/forgiven??

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Can this kind of mum be accepted/forgiven??

Postby cool_hi » Sun Jun 03, 2012 4:58 am

A daughter can't tolerate wrongful accusations & slanders from her mum, who has been torturing her mentally for a long time.

Daughter can't take it & almost jumped down in front of her young kids & hubby..
Her mother can still smile and play mahjong happily, with her other 2 children, who also not bothered with their own sister..her brother's wife even purposely post on Facebook, to show the daughter, their happy faces..

What sort of mother+siblings are these?? Even a casual friend will show basic concern..

What should the daughter do? suicidal thoughts everyday...

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Re: Can this kind of mum be accepted/forgiven??

Postby peterch » Sun Jun 03, 2012 8:50 am

Just my 2 cents,

There are more cruel mother than the mother in above story but commiting suicide is a BIG NO.

Please pray, try to forgive them and she would be able to have a more peacefull life at least in her mind. You didnt mention about her hubby and kids. They ought be the best reason for her to survive.

It might be easier said than doing but she has to.

Cheers

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Re: Can this kind of mum be accepted/forgiven??

Postby ammonite » Sun Jun 03, 2012 9:14 am

The daughter should move on with her own life. As an adult with her own family, she should no longer be seeking for her mother's approval. She should 'wake up' and see that she should be a good role model for her own children, and think what kind of relationship she wants with her children, rather than wasting her time and energy on things she cannot change. She should do damage control and move away instead of waiting and hoping for a resolution that may never come.

Personally, if she is my friend, I will take her out and give her a big scolding. Her actions are hurting her own family and young children, as much as her mother and siblings have hurt her. If she carries on like that, her children will grow to resent her. She is not living in a Taiwanese soap.

If she needs more help, she should get professional counseling.
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Re: Can this kind of mum be accepted/forgiven??

Postby ammonite » Sun Jun 03, 2012 9:15 am

Eh? Why is this in Holiday ideas??!

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Re: Can this kind of mum be accepted/forgiven??

Postby Ichigokun » Sun Jun 03, 2012 10:36 pm

@ammonite
:lol: Holiday ideas - Heaven? XD

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