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Sec school Whatsapp Content

Postby mummy OnABudget » Tue Jan 28, 2014 4:13 pm

will u inform the school or the child sending pornographic manga through whats-app group chat?

i recently discover my sec1 ds who thank god after i removed his smart phone his class mate is sending pornographic manga through WA to the whole class in the chat feels so alarmed as they are only turning 13 this yr. :nailbite: :nailbite:

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Re: Sec school Whatsapp Content

Postby AC_Power » Tue Jan 28, 2014 4:25 pm

errr, what exactly is a "pornographic manga"?

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Re: Sec school Whatsapp Content

Postby mummy OnABudget » Tue Jan 28, 2014 4:33 pm

hmmm jap cartoon manga with unclothed girls n boys ><!!!! very hesitant to even give him back the hp now

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Re: Sec school Whatsapp Content

Postby AC_Power » Tue Jan 28, 2014 4:52 pm

mummy OnABudget wrote:hmmm jap cartoon manga with unclothed girls n boys ><!!!! very hesitant to even give him back the hp now


My personal opinion would be not to report to the school. Talk to your DS openly on why you feel that such content is not appropriate to be circulated in such a manner.

Teenagers will naturally be curious about all these and I believe taking a more open approach might be better.

With the Internet, they will be exposed contents much more explicit than such cartoons. Might as well take this opportunity to address the issue on pornography.

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Re: Sec school Whatsapp Content

Postby pirate » Tue Jan 28, 2014 4:53 pm

Time to have a chat with your boy about the birds, bees and whatnot.

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Re: Sec school Whatsapp Content

Postby JJ1111 » Tue Jan 28, 2014 5:05 pm

He send to his friend or his friend send to him?

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Re: Sec school Whatsapp Content

Postby mummy OnABudget » Tue Jan 28, 2014 5:19 pm

his friends send to him he knows about the bees and whatnot thing is hp is CONFISCATE till further notice maximum 2 months i am now also afraid to pass it back to him he does not know yet mummy is snooping around if he does i guess hes going to get not very pleased.

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Re: Sec school Whatsapp Content

Postby slmkhoo » Tue Jan 28, 2014 6:13 pm

You looked without telling him? That's sticky. Maybe find a way to look with his permission. I feel it should be reported to the school asap. It's not at all appropriate for their age, or any age, come to that!

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Re: Sec school Whatsapp Content

Postby mummy OnABudget » Tue Jan 28, 2014 6:33 pm

his phone is with me la confiscated so now is how to proceed tell that child parents or tell the teacher in sch or just act blur i am just dreading the day he gets the phone back too

i am contemplating telling the teachers asap but later she tell them is i who informed ah boy is going to be very not happy.

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Re: Sec school Whatsapp Content

Postby BlueBells » Wed Jan 29, 2014 9:30 am

Just tell him you looked at his phone without his permission and you are sorry about it. Apologise and sincerely admin it is against your better judgement.

I let me girls know I will check their phones and usually do so in front of them, no snooping around; and teach them how to handle some stuff, like unknown number / people whatsapping them, etc. .

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