How to handle child who talked back

Parental influence on children in the first 12 years of their lives have a permanent effect. Unfortunately, children come with no user manual. Each child is different from the other. Discuss how to handle emotional and educational needs of your child here.
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Re: How to handle child who talked back

Post by hb » Thu Oct 10, 2019 11:48 am

zac's mum wrote:
Thu Oct 10, 2019 11:24 am
Joanne25 wrote:
Thu Oct 10, 2019 11:19 am
Do you still impose corporal punishment if your child not doing the right thing for their age like talking back if you are in a heat conversation?
Corporal punishment should never be implemented when either party is still angry.
If I do (mea culpa), I apologize to the kid after.

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Re: How to handle child who talked back

Post by YJessica » Fri Nov 29, 2019 4:41 pm

I will let my child vent out to let her feel that I respect and understand how she feels. Once she is done, that is the time that I will let her know that I don't like what she did and remind her that she should respect me as her mother.

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Re: How to handle child who talked back

Post by AceTutors123 » Tue Dec 03, 2019 10:25 am

I wonder if the root cause of a child talking back will be easy to uncover, or are they simply expressing their individuality?

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Re: How to handle child who talked back

Post by mrang » Tue Dec 03, 2019 9:10 pm

talk to your child nicely. if still dont listen, need to have some punishments to let them know their place

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Re: How to handle child who talked back

Post by Devabhai » Tue Dec 24, 2019 8:42 pm

Hello everyone,,
How it works in my family is that we play a good cop bad cop role. Where one disciplines the child to stop the immediate action from the child http://tradevenue.se/, we have also a good cop role that tries to help the kid understand why we need him to behave the way we do and understand his mindset for his actions at that point in time..
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Re: How to handle child who talked back

Post by peasants » Tue Dec 24, 2019 10:43 pm

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Re: How to handle child who talked back

Post by MrsKiasu » Tue Dec 24, 2019 10:48 pm

I find usually daddies will have more 'power' de..when dad is at home, dds auto bring own plates to kitchen after meals and make their bed..

As the grow, they will have own thoughts/opinions, most time I will tell them that is not right to go against..but sometimes I do ask myself if that is their way of conveying own thoughts/opinions..if that is conveyed using a better tone, would it be seen better? I am still learning..
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Re: How to handle child who talked back

Post by zac's mum » Tue Dec 24, 2019 10:51 pm

Can someone give an example of what is “taking back”? After 9 years of child-rearing, I still have no idea of what it means.

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Re: How to handle child who talked back

Post by MrsKiasu » Tue Dec 24, 2019 10:59 pm

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Re: How to handle child who talked back

Post by MrsKiasu » Tue Dec 24, 2019 11:00 pm

Talking back, to me is more of voicing of different opinions from both parties .. in a more impolite and loud ways?? like what you see from the family drama.. talk loud/shout that kind of thing?

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