Hahahaha.... u r rite sall!sall wrote:I think it's ok to carry bags for them, when they're a bit older, they would automatically reject your offer, cos they feel embarrassed. They dun even want you to pick them from school. So dun have to worry about training them to be independent.
My DS1 who is in S2 will carry his own bag to the car even if i offer to carry it for him.
He will offer to carry the grocery for me too.
I think as parents, if we offer to carry their bags for them when they are young, they will follow our example when they are older to help us carry things !