Boy & Bras

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Re: Boy & Bras

Postby Fairy » Mon May 30, 2011 12:23 am

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The thought of if he was holding them while waiting for his girlfriend, what kind of 'relationship' than is considered close enough to do such 'intimate' favour for the girl? Observing him for about 3 minutes, hoping to see the girl to appear but she didn't and he just stood there playing with his phone while waiting.

Mummies, would you object your teenage sons holding bras for girlfriends??



I would object my teenage son having a girlfriend in the first place.

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Re: Boy & Bras

Postby laughingcat » Mon May 30, 2011 1:07 am

I am quite conservative. So no no when you are still studying. :nunchuk: After NS can.

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Re: Boy & Bras

Postby phankao » Mon May 30, 2011 2:27 am

Aiyah, why your photo so small? I wanted to see if it was someone I knew! Hehe

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Re: Boy & Bras

Postby cnimed » Mon May 30, 2011 9:32 am

Fairy wrote:I would object my teenage son having a girlfriend in the first place.


Even at 17 or 18? My father has a very interesting perspective on this - if you stop them from dating during the teenage year, they may end up never getting married. My father also believe in dating around so that you can tell the good from the bad - "if you have no one to compare with, how would you know who is good to you??" My MIL is the same. She has a sister who was not allowed to date when she fell head-over-heels in love, and she never ever dated again. She's 50+ now.

Holding bra is a superficial thing. The more important thing is they learn to have a healthy relationship.
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Re: Boy & Bras

Postby dramamama70 » Mon May 30, 2011 11:56 am

All I can say is, if I ever asked my ds or dh to hold on to just one bra - in private or in public - they would give me the evil look and keep their distance away from me! :D

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Re: Boy & Bras

Postby verykiasu2010 » Mon May 30, 2011 10:50 pm

the title of this thread should simply be "B&B"
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Re: Boy & Bras

Postby Happy Mama » Mon May 30, 2011 10:52 pm

verykiasu2010 wrote:the title of this thread should simply be "B&B"

Could be mistaken for Bed&Breakfast! :rotflmao:

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Re: Boy & Bras

Postby SAHM_TAN » Mon May 30, 2011 11:19 pm

A step up from holding handbags. 2 things.

I would not want my DDs to shop for such clothings with their bf and I do not want my DS to shop such clothings with his gf.

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Re: Boy & Bras

Postby Oppsgal » Tue May 31, 2011 1:51 pm

I won't mind, as long nothing happened... Maybe because can only bring 3 items into fitting room, so is alright to hold while the girl is trying the clothes in fitting room.

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Re: Boy & Bras

Postby verykiasu2010 » Tue May 31, 2011 2:00 pm

Happy Mama wrote:
verykiasu2010 wrote:the title of this thread should simply be "B&B"

Could be mistaken for Bed&Breakfast! :rotflmao:


may be that is the next step :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
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