杨六斤

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杨六斤

Postby insider » Sat Jun 07, 2014 3:38 pm

let your child watch this as an 'enrichment':

http://www.life.com.tw/?app=view&no=133077

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Re: 杨六斤

Postby Imami » Sat Jun 07, 2014 7:25 pm

Thank you, insider. 还真飙泪啊!

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Re: 杨六斤

Postby buds » Sat Jun 07, 2014 7:30 pm

insider wrote:let your child watch this as an 'enrichment':

http://www.life.com.tw/?app=view&no=133077


Insider-jie, the link does not direct to a video.
Is there another link?

Edit : Ok, it worked the 5th time i clicked on it. :wink:

PS. Missed reading you around.

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Re: 杨六斤

Postby PiggyLalala » Sat Jun 07, 2014 9:18 pm

Just watched with ds2.
Thanks insider for the link.

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Re: 杨六斤

Postby insider » Sat Jun 07, 2014 11:45 pm

buds wrote:
PS. Missed reading you around.


buddie

me in broken mood coz best friend passed on.

helped in funeral arrangement, insurance claims, etc.

so sad. listening to songs also will tear anyhow...

let me recover then i come and chit chat kpo around like good old days...

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Re: 杨六斤

Postby lovinglife » Sat Jun 07, 2014 11:53 pm

:cry:

Thanks for sharing, insider.

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Re: 杨六斤

Postby buds » Sun Jun 08, 2014 12:29 am

insider wrote:
buds wrote:
PS. Missed reading you around.


buddie

me in broken mood coz best friend passed on.

helped in funeral arrangement, insurance claims, etc.

so sad. listening to songs also will tear anyhow...

let me recover then i come and chit chat kpo around like good old days...


Was she the same person whom you spoke of earlier this year or was it late last year?

Feel :( when you mention being in a broken mood. But i suppose you will need time to grieve. Just know that my heart is with you at this time of grief. :hugs:

In this world of different kinds of people, it is not often that we can find best friends in friends. It is not often that we find someone whom we can share anything with and know they won't judge, someone who is truly there for us, someone who understands that despite the smiles we put up, there are hardships we don't want to burden them with but we don't mind being there for them in times of (their) need, someone who doesn't just think of themselves and that their problems are bigger than anyone else's, someone who can understand that we have our bad days and won't fault us or be mean to us because we cannot be there for them when that happens.

When we have formed best friendships like those you have always shared stories about, these are friends we have for life.

For those times I have been down and sometimes out, I hung on to your dear advices and sharings (back read them) that held my sanity intact. You became the voice that held me together and the voice that encouraged me to look beyond the challenges life has it in for me.

I will keep your friend in my prayers and pray that she is now in a better place. Celebrate her goodness, celebrate the good times you've had and celebrate the friendship she has shared with you till the last days of her life.

Take care, buddy.. :hugs:

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Re: 杨六斤

Postby Integer » Mon Jun 09, 2014 2:53 pm

insider wrote:let your child watch this as an 'enrichment':

http://www.life.com.tw/?app=view&no=133077

Thanks insider.

Managed to watch this with DS last nite. I know he's touched, thou he didn't cry. I cried ...

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Postby SAHM_TAN » Mon Jun 09, 2014 3:10 pm

I was reflecting and came to the conclusion that I don't have enough inner strength for my 3 kiddos. As I was pondering on what to do, I came to the conclusion that I will send them for religion studies enrichment. I know as parents we are the main models of values and character but I also know my weaknesses and the weekly reflection will be good for me too.

I was wondering if insider has posted anything and logged in. I gained much comfort from the video. Kids can be very strong. Maybe I have underestimated the inner strengths of my kids too.

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Re: 杨六斤

Postby insider » Wed Jun 11, 2014 8:53 pm

This is 'enrichment' for parents.

Very simply theories and not difficult to do. I do all and I am blessed...

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李嘉诚:三种钱花得越多赚得越多

第一种钱:投资自己,自我成长。学习的钱一定要花!

  如果我们把世界首富比尔·盖茨从美国抓到非洲,并且不给他一毛钱花用,相信很快的,比尔·盖茨还是会有钱,因为他所有的本钱就是他头脑里的智慧。换句话说,把钱投资自己的头脑上,是最安全的理财,到哪里都不会饿肚子。

  也许很多人会反驳:“连三餐都吃不饱了,负债累累,哪里有钱再去学习呢?而且学习也不见得立刻就看得到效果!”这样的人永远都不会把钱投资自己的脑袋,事实上,如果真的一贫如洗,头脑正是东山再起的最大本钱,更应该好好投资在这里才对,因为脑袋穷,人生就会穷。

  于是我们看到周遭好多人终其一生都在为钱所苦,永远在补金钱的黑洞,实在是因为他们没有看清事实。如果只顾看眼前,而没有站高一点往后看,一辈子恐怕很难有翻身的机会。

  人生中的困境,是你前世未完成的功课,一定要通过自我摸索与自我学习,才能突破与跃进。聪明的人懂得通过学习以别人的经验为借镜,避免自己重蹈覆辙多走冤枉路。所以,学习的钱一定要舍得花,哪怕借钱来投资自己都是值得的,因为它一定会有窗口让你再把钱赚进来。

  把钱投资在自己的头脑上,是最安全的理财,到哪里都不会饿肚子。

  所以,如果你也面临人生的难题,一定要记得,好好栽培自己是永远不嫌迟的。随时都可以开始!可能很多人会说没钱,事实上会有这样说法的人一定花了不少冤枉钱,假如有想改变的心,却连一点点的学费都没有行动力,这样的人在面对现实生活中真正的困难时,会有足够的能力去超越吗?要知道,真正的难关比这大过千百倍,小处都克服不了,人生如何能翻转成功呢?

  学习的花费看得见,也有限,但花在社会大学里的学费却可能让我们倾家荡产,甚至招致生命的危险。所以,一样要学习,不如把学费交给有智慧的人引导我们,而不是把钱砸在学费高昂的社会大学里。聪明的你,一定要领悟这个道理。

  第二种钱:“孝天的钱一定要花”。

  也就是孝顺爸爸妈妈的钱一定要给。也许有人会认为当自己连吃穿都不够用,而且还负债累累时,根本没有办法定期给父母亲零用钱;也有人会说家里又不缺钱,爸妈都说自己够用,不用拿钱回家呀!

  不管你的父母经济情况如何,孝顺爸爸妈妈的钱是一定要定时定量给予的。再怎么穷,一个月也要挤出钱来孝敬父母!想想看,你的父母会不会因为负债、缺钱就不抚养你?他们再怎么穷,还是把你抚养长大,不是吗?所以现在你回报他们也是应该的,怎么可以有钱才给父母,没钱就不奉养呢?

其实,你或许不知道,父母就是我们的天时,我们与父母的互动可以累积天时的能量,一个人如果没有天时,这一辈子做任何事都无法顺利。所以,换个角度来看,孝顺父母的钱不只是为了父母好,同时也是为了自己啊!(insider's note: this is what I have been 'preaching' all the while on 'positive ions').

  如果你不相信,不妨观察一下周遭环境,看看那些一年换24个老板的年轻人,是不是往往也都不太孝顺?那些从年轻开始,做什么赔什么,做什么都失败、不顺利的人,跟父母的沟通一定有障碍;相反的,再看看台湾一些成功的大企业家,例如王永庆先生、郭台铭先生、高清愿先生、蔡宏图先生……是不是都是事亲至孝呢?甚至也有调查报告指出,全球前五百大的企业家,个个都是孝顺的人物啊!

  请永远记得,哪怕你负债累累,孝顺父母的钱绝对不能省。不论你的生命正处在什么阶段,人生正逢什么关卡,请你永远要记得,哪怕你负债累累,孝顺父母的钱绝对不能省,他们可以咬紧牙根把我们养大,为他们再多负担这一点钱也是应该的。

  万一你还没有赚钱的能力或没有收入,没有办法用金钱来孝敬父母,也要记得,至少要“顺天”。我的意思是,当你和父母意见相左时,尽量用柔顺、平和的方式跟父母沟通。所有的父母都希望自己的孩子成龙成凤,很少有父母对自己的孩子没有期待,尽管有时沟通的方式让我们难以接受,也要试着体谅父母的成长背景,因为他们不懂如何用比较客观的方式表达内心的话,这是时代背景不同使然,要改变老人家的想法很难,不如调整自己来顺应他们。所以,如果没有办法“孝天”,至少要“顺天”。

  第三种钱,回馈的钱一定要花。

  包括回馈社会及回馈我们身边的人。畅销书《富爸爸,穷爸爸》的作者罗伯特·T·清崎先生说,他的富爸爸深信钱是要先付出才会有回报的,因此,在年轻时就养成习惯,无论再困难都要定期捐出一点钱来回馈社会,于是他越来越富有。而穷爸爸总是说,只要有多余的钱一定捐出来,然而终其一生,他始终都没有多余的钱。

  无论如何再穷,世上都有比自己更不幸的人,因此要尽量养成回馈社会的好习惯。有负债的人可以捐出月收入的2%,比如月入2万元,2%就是400元;而没有负债的人可捐至少5%,以月入2万元来算,就是1000元。

  如果这样的回馈也有困难,那么一条十块钱的口香糖也买得起吧!下次当看到如此辛劳在为生活打拼的人,一定要有敬佩疼惜的心,常常去试想或许我们的小小消费,就能成就他们全家的温饱与快乐。

  当我们的念头总是在正向的意念里循环,你所慷慨解囊的十几、二十元,与王永庆先生、郭台铭先生所捐献的一百万、两百万,是一样的功德。如果你是一个赚钱的老板,别忘了今天的成功是员工共同打拼的成果,回馈他们也是应该的。比如一些上市公司通常都会把利润提出一定比例,回馈给员工当福利,这就非常值得称许。这些老板知道这些钱是循环的,最后一定会回馈到原点。

其实,你或许不知道,父母就是我们的天时,我们与父母的互动可以累积天时的能量,一个人如果没有天时,这一辈子做任何事都无法顺利。所以,换个角度来看,孝顺父母的钱不只是为了父母好,同时也是为了自己啊!

  如果你不相信,不妨观察一下周遭环境,看看那些一年换24个老板的年轻人,是不是往往也都不太孝顺?那些从年轻开始,做什么赔什么,做什么都失败、不顺利的人,跟父母的沟通一定有障碍;相反的,再看看台湾一些成功的大企业家,例如王永庆先生、郭台铭先生、高清愿先生、蔡宏图先生……是不是都是事亲至孝呢?甚至也有调查报告指出,全球前五百大的企业家,个个都是孝顺的人物啊!

  请永远记得,哪怕你负债累累,孝顺父母的钱绝对不能省。不论你的生命正处在什么阶段,人生正逢什么关卡,请你永远要记得,哪怕你负债累累,孝顺父母的钱绝对不能省,他们可以咬紧牙根把我们养大,为他们再多负担这一点钱也是应该的。

  万一你还没有赚钱的能力或没有收入,没有办法用金钱来孝敬父母,也要记得,至少要“顺天”。我的意思是,当你和父母意见相左时,尽量用柔顺、平和的方式跟父母沟通。所有的父母都希望自己的孩子成龙成凤,很少有父母对自己的孩子没有期待,尽管有时沟通的方式让我们难以接受,也要试着体谅父母的成长背景,因为他们不懂如何用比较客观的方式表达内心的话,这是时代背景不同使然,要改变老人家的想法很难,不如调整自己来顺应他们。所以,如果没有办法“孝天”,至少要“顺天”。

  第三种钱,回馈的钱一定要花。

  包括回馈社会及回馈我们身边的人。畅销书《富爸爸,穷爸爸》的作者罗伯特·T·清崎先生说,他的富爸爸深信钱是要先付出才会有回报的,因此,在年轻时就养成习惯,无论再困难都要定期捐出一点钱来回馈社会,于是他越来越富有。而穷爸爸总是说,只要有多余的钱一定捐出来,然而终其一生,他始终都没有多余的钱。

  无论如何再穷,世上都有比自己更不幸的人,因此要尽量养成回馈社会的好习惯。有负债的人可以捐出月收入的2%,比如月入2万元,2%就是400元;而没有负债的人可捐至少5%,以月入2万元来算,就是1000元。

  如果这样的回馈也有困难,那么一条十块钱的口香糖也买得起吧!下次当看到如此辛劳在为生活打拼的人,一定要有敬佩疼惜的心,常常去试想或许我们的小小消费,就能成就他们全家的温饱与快乐。

  当我们的念头总是在正向的意念里循环,你所慷慨解囊的十几、二十元,与王永庆先生、郭台铭先生所捐献的一百万、两百万,是一样的功德。如果你是一个赚钱的老板,别忘了今天的成功是员工共同打拼的成果,回馈他们也是应该的。比如一些上市公司通常都会把利润提出一定比例,回馈给员工当福利,这就非常值得称许。这些老板知道这些钱是循环的,最后一定会回馈到原点。

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