Jennifer wrote:I wont have anyone to take care of me should I be down with it.
I completely understand where you are coming from, because it's the same for me too. Once, when I was down with very high fever and the flu, I heard a remark loud enough for me to hear... "Huh, sick again.." Followed by a sigh. Even then, I still put food on the table with some simple arrangements with DD1 as I was feeling too giddy to stand in the kitchen to cook. On good days, he will personally bring me to the clinic and tell me not to worry about meals, the kids or the house.
Jennifer wrote: Better to stay in the hospital when meals are provided, laundry are washed and I do not have to do household
If the hospital can't admit you, then what you need is a short stay in a hotel (not a staycation definitely) and a friend... you know where to find me.