Does your kids know....

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Does your kids know....

Postby Nebbermind » Tue Oct 12, 2010 11:28 am

...that you are complaining abt your husbands, wives, mother, father, MIL, FIL. etc here?

Your kid may be having a good relationship with all these parties but after reading your revelation, starts resenting them. Is it healthy? Shd we make this forum more private?

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Re: Does your kids know....

Postby janet88 » Tue Oct 12, 2010 12:54 pm

Nebbermind wrote:...that you are complaining abt your husbands, wives, mother, father, MIL, FIL. etc here?

Your kid may be having a good relationship with all these parties but after reading your revelation, starts resenting them. Is it healthy? Shd we make this forum more private?


I always logout when I leave my seat...and I've made it a rule that when I sit in front of the laptop, my son is not to see what I'm typing.

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Re: Does your kids know....

Postby smartmummy » Fri Jun 10, 2011 12:42 am

janet_lee88 wrote:
Nebbermind wrote:...that you are complaining abt your husbands, wives, mother, father, MIL, FIL. etc here?

Your kid may be having a good relationship with all these parties but after reading your revelation, starts resenting them. Is it healthy? Shd we make this forum more private?


I always logout when I leave my seat...and I've made it a rule that when I sit in front of the laptop, my son is not to see what I'm typing.


yah I do the same.

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Re: Does your kids know....

Postby BlueBells » Fri Jun 10, 2011 9:34 am

I only access this forum while in the office, never at home. However, I air everything and more to my hubby, be it about his mum / dad / brother or SIL - their attitudes / behaviour, etc.. It then become a subject discussion for us, his takes, my takes; but we never quarrel about it. And if I air anything to my sister, I will let him know it as well.

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Re: Does your kids know....

Postby sunflowerseed84 » Fri Jun 10, 2011 12:19 pm

haven really start complaining about anyth yet here. :smile:

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Re: Does your kids know....

Postby LOLMum » Fri Jun 10, 2011 6:00 pm

when dh and i talked/complained about our family members in front of our kids, it is usually about the matter and not the person. on this forum??? well, i cant really remember what comments i had made but i dont think they are negative comments.

dd did expressed shock when she read some of threads on this forum.

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Re: Does your kids know....

Postby bigsnoopy » Fri Jun 10, 2011 10:34 pm

Didn't let my DD know not on good terms with MIL. I don't think the conflicts need to bring down to the next generation.

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Re: Does your kids know....

Postby peapot » Sat Jun 11, 2011 7:16 am

YKVT, you have a good point there. I also agree not to influence our children.

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Re: Does your kids know....

Postby janet88 » Sat Jun 11, 2011 5:41 pm

BlueBells wrote:I only access this forum while in the office, never at home. However, I air everything and more to my hubby, be it about his mum / dad / brother or SIL - their attitudes / behaviour, etc.. It then become a subject discussion for us, his takes, my takes; but we never quarrel about it. And if I air anything to my sister, I will let him know it as well.


Hubby knows my take on his family.
As for the kids, I access this forum when they are both at school.

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Re: Does your kids know....

Postby Castle House » Mon Jun 13, 2011 9:56 am

Hi

Yes.. I also never discussed the issue (if any) infront of my children. I will only discuss with hb whenever the kids are playing among themselves or nowhere within the hearing distance.. :)

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