How to get along well with my four children
Posted: Tue Feb 08, 2011 1:24 pm
I'm a single mother with four children, 3 boys and a girl.
I used to get along well with my children as I don't have to work when I havn't divorced.
Now I've to work two jobs in order to cover up the expenses. The children are looking after themselves.
But I felt that something really changed in my eldest son, aged 13 going to 14 since his dad had beaten us up badly.
We used to talk everything, but now, he don't talk to me. I felt that he is stress, but whenever I ask him, he said he's not.
My eldest is getting more inpatient with his sildings. Once, they had a fight among themselves. What can I do? I can only sit down there and cried.
Now he just interested on internet. He goes to school everyday and he said he loves going to schoo. Last year, he was bully by a China boy and I knew that he has no friends in school but just 1 or 2 close by friends.
My third son couldn't get along well with his youngest sister. We all know that he don't like his sister at all.
Is it true that children are getting more diffcult to teach? I tried to teach them, scolding...caning....talking....but ends up nothing.
They lied to me too.
Sometimes I really gonna to give up everything.
I used to get along well with my children as I don't have to work when I havn't divorced.
Now I've to work two jobs in order to cover up the expenses. The children are looking after themselves.
But I felt that something really changed in my eldest son, aged 13 going to 14 since his dad had beaten us up badly.
We used to talk everything, but now, he don't talk to me. I felt that he is stress, but whenever I ask him, he said he's not.
My eldest is getting more inpatient with his sildings. Once, they had a fight among themselves. What can I do? I can only sit down there and cried.
Now he just interested on internet. He goes to school everyday and he said he loves going to schoo. Last year, he was bully by a China boy and I knew that he has no friends in school but just 1 or 2 close by friends.
My third son couldn't get along well with his youngest sister. We all know that he don't like his sister at all.
Is it true that children are getting more diffcult to teach? I tried to teach them, scolding...caning....talking....but ends up nothing.
They lied to me too.
Sometimes I really gonna to give up everything.