Need Help in filing court document

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Need Help in filing court document

Postby Dark Hope » Wed Feb 23, 2011 9:02 pm

Dear All,

I have been 4 months never seen my 2 little daughters. Previously when i went there 2 times with my maid as a witness, she have stopped me & closed the door. I missed them every night.

Can someone able to guide me how to file up this Originating Summons to the family court to have access to my daughters? If needed the lawyer to help, i need to pay $2,500 ... and free legal aid rejected my application.

Hope someone can help me ... :( distress
(We are in the process of divorce now, not adultery case)

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Postby autumnbronze » Wed Feb 23, 2011 9:53 pm

Hi,

Pls check your PM in a while.

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Postby Dark Hope » Wed Feb 23, 2011 10:00 pm

autumnbronze wrote:Hi,

Pls check your PM in a while.


Thanks

Indeed divorce is a hurtful process in between husband and wife in this stressful country we lived. Inregardless what is the outcome, the children is always the one who is suffering without knowing what's going now. Btw, my 2 little daughters is 3 & 4 years old, very young.

Due to alot past unplesant we have during our marriage, i have decided to end it n file the divorce before CNY. She have counter-claims it with all her lies protecting herself again. But the most hurtful is couldn't see my children living alone at our flat. This is my first marriage with someone and she have divorce before with 3 children with her ex husband.

I know lots of people will says how stupid to involve this relationship with her and married her, and i have went thru numerous police station to take my statement of all her reports to me. I went thru rape and even hearing when she applied to kick me out of the flat. My heart hurts alot whatever things she have treated me .... i guessed everything should not have happened in the first place when i discovered my first child and took the responsible in marriage.

I'm not here to hope people will pity my current situations i have, i just wish to say some of my inner feelings in me now. I just wish to see my daughters

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Postby e3nity » Thu Feb 24, 2011 3:59 pm

Dark Hope wrote:
autumnbronze wrote:Hi,

Pls check your PM in a while.


Thanks

Indeed divorce is a hurtful process in between husband and wife in this stressful country we lived. Inregardless what is the outcome, the children is always the one who is suffering without knowing what's going now. Btw, my 2 little daughters is 3 & 4 years old, very young.

Due to alot past unplesant we have during our marriage, i have decided to end it n file the divorce before CNY. She have counter-claims it with all her lies protecting herself again. But the most hurtful is couldn't see my children living alone at our flat. This is my first marriage with someone and she have divorce before with 3 children with her ex husband.

I know lots of people will says how stupid to involve this relationship with her and married her, and i have went thru numerous police station to take my statement of all her reports to me. I went thru rape and even hearing when she applied to kick me out of the flat. My heart hurts alot whatever things she have treated me .... i guessed everything should not have happened in the first place when i discovered my first child and took the responsible in marriage.

I'm not here to hope people will pity my current situations i have, i just wish to say some of my inner feelings in me now. I just wish to see my daughters


I believe you can approach another agency other then legal aid but got to pay lah.. if you need legal advise you can go to 3rd floor of sub court.. There is ppl to help u there.. I'm oso going thru my divorce. :celebrate:

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Postby Dark Hope » Thu Feb 24, 2011 4:01 pm

I believe you can approach another agency other then legal aid but got to pay lah.. if you need legal advise you can go to 3rd floor of sub court.. There is ppl to help u there.. I'm oso going thru my divorce. :celebrate:[/quote]

mind to share your case with me?

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Postby e3nity » Thu Feb 24, 2011 4:36 pm

My case is more str8 forward. As my ex do not visit my child thru out our 4 yrs of seperation, the custody part is not so complicated. Since he is jobless, he approached legal aid to pick up the case for him. As for me, I didn't engage the lawyer. So it should be an easy case. I am going for the legal clinic to sought advice on my form filling this evening. After which my PTC will be heard early next month. Hope i can settle this asap. DS got to enrol for P1 soon. I am hoping the court to allow me to change DS name as his original name is not so good.

Don't worry too much. Every thing will be fine. Hope you come to a compromise with ur wife soon. By the way, you can sought assistance from HOPE FSC. Btw, Hope is a FSC for divorcee/single parent and children coping with divorce/ single parenthood.They are helping DS to cope with the divorce. Perhaps they can act as a bridge to link you up with your girls.

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Postby Dark Hope » Thu Feb 24, 2011 4:45 pm

e3nity wrote:My case is more str8 forward. As my ex do not visit my child thru out our 4 yrs of seperation, the custody part is not so complicated. Since he is jobless, he approached legal aid to pick up the case for him. As for me, I didn't engage the lawyer. So it should be an easy case. I am going for the legal clinic to sought advice on my form filling this evening. After which my PTC will be heard early next month. Hope i can settle this asap. DS got to enrol for P1 soon. I am hoping the court to allow me to change DS name as his original name is not so good.

Don't worry too much. Every thing will be fine. Hope you come to a compromise with ur wife soon. By the way, you can sought assistance from HOPE FSC. Btw, Hope is a FSC for divorcee/single parent and children coping with divorce/ single parenthood.They are helping DS to cope with the divorce. Perhaps they can act as a bridge to link you up with your girls.


i went to Reach before ... and the counselor is hopeless only tells me nothing she can do now and everything leave it to the family court or police. those moments i keep going family court for assist and free legal aid for help ... in the end, all says i must find a lawyer to do that. communication with her no use, as she have cut off all contacts and even reported harassment :(

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Postby e3nity » Thu Feb 24, 2011 5:11 pm

definately if you wana re-fight for the custody and access of ur children u will need a lawyer. But if you are hoping to settle it outside court, you can still approach FSC. Mine is quite nice. The counsellor gave me quite alot of advice.

Anyway since u are filing for divorce, you will have a lawyer i suppose? By then the lawyer will draft your proposed parenting plan to be submitted to court. You can state your difficulties and let the court adjourn.

My case i don't need a lawyer cause my ex already approached legal aid and he had been allocated a lawyer to represent him. All i need to do is to defend for myself.

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Postby Dark Hope » Thu Feb 24, 2011 5:22 pm

e3nity wrote:definately if you wana re-fight for the custody and access of ur children u will need a lawyer. But if you are hoping to settle it outside court, you can still approach FSC. Mine is quite nice. The counsellor gave me quite alot of advice.

Anyway since u are filing for divorce, you will have a lawyer i suppose? By then the lawyer will draft your proposed parenting plan to be submitted to court. You can state your difficulties and let the court adjourn.

My case i don't need a lawyer cause my ex already approached legal aid and he had been allocated a lawyer to represent him. All i need to do is to defend for myself.


my case might be abit hard to get the custody as most i heard, the judge will give to the mother. and even though love still have, divorce to protect myself from harms from her.

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Postby e3nity » Thu Feb 24, 2011 5:32 pm

im not sure about that but i'm certain that the issue on access to the children can be adjourned on court when both parties are not agreeable to one and other.

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