MY NEW LIFE - WIDOW

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MY NEW LIFE - WIDOW

Postby dolphinsiah » Thu Apr 14, 2011 3:24 pm

Became a Widow , after hubby lost his battle with CHEMO ....not Cancer.... 3 months ago :(

I still think Chemo kill him.... :stupid:

Till today , I still cannot accept that I am a WIDOW.... :scratchhead:

To me Widows are supposed to be old ...in their 70s or 80s surrounded by grown up children and grandchildren....
Grey hair , Long sighted....

I do not belong to this Group.....is it just a BAD Dream....???

But the truth is it is not a BAD Dream....

I now have to lead a NEW LIFE as Widow.... :shock:

For the last few months , I tried to face the society with my new identiy...
I see a lot of human side....Bad and Good :!:
There are people who will avoid me...thinking ...I am now in fiance difficulty.... :moneyflies:

Do not like this new Widow Role...... :P This new role has forced me to :
a)Refresh my Driving skills after 8 years....of always being the passenger... :nailbite:
b)Learn how to write cheques...pay bills...become a HAndy Woman... :nunchuk:
c)Take on the father role....(the mother and father is me...) :?
d)hate weekends and public holidays.... :gloomy:


So I am still adjusting my Roller Coaster emotion....on how to like my New Role as a Widow... :|

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Postby bezzlay » Thu Apr 14, 2011 3:56 pm

I am sorry to hear that. I guess life is unpredictable and sometimes very cruel. I hope you can brace yourself up and nurture your kid(s) well. :)

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Postby jtoh » Thu Apr 14, 2011 4:00 pm

Sorry to hear that. Be strong for yourself and for your children. I hope things get better for you.

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Postby LKVM » Thu Apr 14, 2011 4:03 pm

Sorry to hear about that... however dont lose your patience and be brave.. world is all very cruel so you must have courage to face it..

Be Brave!!

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Re: MY NEW LIFE - WIDOW

Postby Daddy D » Thu Apr 14, 2011 4:04 pm

Sorry to hear...
Be strong and stay positive.
There are various support groups out there if you need assistance.

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Postby raynreg » Thu Apr 14, 2011 4:14 pm

Sorry to hear that...
Do whatever it needs to keep yourself going..
Stay strong for your kids for they need you, ya.....

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Postby LOLMum » Thu Apr 14, 2011 4:29 pm

:(

it takes a while to heal the hurt and loss of support (dh and friends). stay stong and you will come out stronger.

take care and God bless.

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Postby Bowie » Thu Apr 14, 2011 4:36 pm

dolphinsiah,

Ur children need you. Stay strong. Write ur thots out, we will be there to listen to u.

Hugs.

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Postby poppy15 » Thu Apr 14, 2011 5:17 pm

:imsorry: to hear that. do stay strong & be positive for the sake of ur kids...they need u. :hugs:

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Postby Little M » Thu Apr 14, 2011 6:02 pm

Here is a big *hug*

Life goes on...

Take it a day a a time. We in this forum will give u a shoulder to lean on :hugs:

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