Sun_2010 wrote:This leads me to a question....
Say for the child is about 15yrs old.
If you are acquainted with your child's friend's parent (possibly thru your child), and come to know that your child's friend is in a BGR, would you inform the parent ? What if it nothing serious, nothing hanky panky?
And conversely , you want to be informed if your child did not confide in you?
I won't inform the other side. I'll just monitor at my end.
If that friend comes from a troubled background, I'll tell my child to end it. If friend comes from a respectable family, I won't wanna be involved because I know it's just puppy love. But if the other side comes complaining to me abt my child, then I'll intervene and tell my child to end the r/s and walk away with his head up high.
There're tell-tales signs that parents can spot, even if the child doesn't open up to you. Teenagers (esp girls) under "kissing spells" will appear pretty drugged/spaced out all day long. You can look out for love bites too. Or check their HP history (or diaries) discreetly.