Favouritism

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Favouritism

Post by carebear » Sat Aug 27, 2011 2:15 pm

For those with 2 or more kids, do your children think you show favouritism?
Does one kid think you love the other more?

I have 2 kids, DS 14 years old and DD 12 years old.
DS thinks I love him more. :smile:
DD thinks I love her more. :smile:

They keep asking me who I love more and I always maintain my stand that I love them both equally, but they don't believe me.

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Re: Favouritism

Post by Guest » Sat Aug 27, 2011 2:39 pm

Maybe you can ask them if they love daddy more or mummy more? If this is tough for them, it may help them to understand why it is tough for you.

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Re: Favouritism

Post by carebear » Sat Aug 27, 2011 2:46 pm

ksi wrote:Maybe you can ask them if they love daddy more or mummy more? If this is tough for them, it may help them to understand why it is tough for you.


Yeap, ask already.
They can't answer.

So I told them "gotcha" :laugh: !

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Re: Favouritism

Post by Pen88n » Sat Aug 27, 2011 3:03 pm

Somedays I love you more, somedays I love her more, somedays I love daddy more, somedays I love myself more........... :oops: :wink:

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Re: Favouritism

Post by vlim » Sat Aug 27, 2011 4:10 pm

Pen88n wrote:Somedays I love you more, somedays I love her more, somedays I love daddy more, somedays I love myself more........... :oops: :wink:


I like your answer.... :wink:


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Re: Favouritism

Post by schweppes » Sat Aug 27, 2011 4:23 pm

carebear wrote:They keep asking me who I love more and I always maintain my stand that I love them both equally, but they don't believe me.


My 2 kids ask that of me all the time. I say that I love them both equally. But if they continue to bug me as to who I love most, then my reply is

"whoever annoys me the least"

They pretty much leave me alone for some peace and quiet after that. :wink:

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Re: Favouritism

Post by sleepy » Sat Aug 27, 2011 5:18 pm

In the morning, when I spend time with dd2, I love dd2 more
In the afternoon, when I spend time with dd1, I love dd1 more
In the evening, when I spend time with dh, I love dh more

dh also kanna same question. His answer is love mummy more :laugh:

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Re: Favouritism

Post by kiddo » Sat Aug 27, 2011 11:38 pm

ask DS my only child you love Daddy or Mommy more... :romance:

he :scared:
what a question :duck:
:wink: just pulling DS leg for a response ............
a family is to love everyone in it no more and no less........ :hugs:

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Re: Favouritism

Post by cnimed » Wed Aug 31, 2011 8:54 am

carebear wrote:I have 2 kids, DS 14 years old and DD 12 years old.
DS thinks I love him more. :smile:
DD thinks I love her more. :smile:



wah, how do u do that?? Share share leh...

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Re: Favouritism

Post by zara30 » Wed Aug 31, 2011 7:04 pm

carebear wrote:For those with 2 or more kids, do your children think you show favouritism?
Does one kid think you love the other more?

I have 2 kids, DS 14 years old and DD 12 years old.
DS thinks I love him more. :smile:
DD thinks I love her more. :smile:

They keep asking me who I love more and I always maintain my stand that I love them both equally, but they don't believe me.




well i have 2 kids so does my MIL and my husband clearly thinks she loves his younger brother more (kind of evident)

I really hope all kids get equal love
from their family cos each child is so worth it!

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