Boy or Girl ?

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If you can choose the gender of your baby, what is your choice?

1) Boy
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2) Girl
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Boy or Girl ?

Postby flyfree » Thu Sep 01, 2011 11:27 pm

If you can choose the gender of your baby, what is your choice?

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Re: Boy or Girl ?

Postby tankee » Thu Sep 01, 2011 11:34 pm

If I could choose back then, I would still had let nature make the call.

Boy or girl, is of no difference to me.

a healthy child is more important than anything else.

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Re: Boy or Girl ?

Postby jeestan » Fri Sep 02, 2011 12:47 am

If I could choose, erm, I would say I would prefer a boy. I know I would get hantam by feminists or anyone who feels it is unfair but boys to me have fewer emotional hang-ups. For girls, I need to be very careful to make sure that she will be emotionally secure. Boys tend to be tougher generally.

But having said that, I would never imagine not having my daughter. Would never want to trade her for a boy. But if I had a choice before I ever had her, maybe I would choose a boy.

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Re: Boy or Girl ?

Postby phtthp » Fri Sep 02, 2011 5:38 am

boy or girl doesn't matter.

most important is.... the baby must be born perfect... no defect whatsoever.

otherwise, no joke ... life time to take care of such kid.

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Re: Boy or Girl ?

Postby LOLMum » Fri Sep 02, 2011 12:13 pm

we thank God for his gifts to us.

when pregnant, we prayed for healthy kids but we also left it in His hands to decide what HE wanted for us to have. we know whatever HE gave, HE will be there to bless and help.

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Re: Boy or Girl ?

Postby laughingcat » Sun Sep 04, 2011 2:05 pm

Boy or girl no different to me. But i would prefer to have at least 1 daughter so that daddy can be pampered and loved by daughter. :hugs:

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Re: Boy or Girl ?

Postby janet88 » Sun Sep 04, 2011 2:47 pm

phtthp wrote:boy or girl doesn't matter.

most important is.... the baby must be born perfect... no defect whatsoever.


This one, I definitely agree...a healthy and perfect child is most important. My first child, a boy was born with cleft lip and palate...although these conditions have been repaired.
When I had my 2nd one, the sonographer asked if I wanted to know the gender. I only asked if the foetus is perfectly formed.

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