Cold Wars (with your spouse)

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Cold Wars (with your spouse)

Postby Baby39 » Fri Sep 30, 2011 5:18 pm

Anyone had cold war/s (not on talking terms & ignore each other) with your spouse? How long did it last? What was the trigger?

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Re: Cold Wars (with your spouse)

Postby UncleLim » Sat Oct 01, 2011 7:26 am

A day or two for me.

I know a couple who had not spoken to each other (unless it absolutely necessary, say about kids tuition or something like that) for a month....

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Re: Cold Wars (with your spouse)

Postby Herbie » Sat Oct 01, 2011 8:38 am

just one day... Trigger by my hb's addiction to tv.

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Re: Cold Wars (with your spouse)

Postby SAHM_TAN » Sat Oct 01, 2011 9:19 am

Longest is a day. It's usually about PILs, kids or stress-related

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Re: Cold Wars (with your spouse)

Postby LOLMum » Sat Oct 01, 2011 12:44 pm

it is not advisable to have cold war for more than 24 hours, the longer a period you dont talk to each other, the more difficult it is to mend the relationship.

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Re: Cold Wars (with your spouse)

Postby Nebbermind » Sat Oct 01, 2011 5:55 pm

Herbie wrote:just one day... Trigger by my hb's addiction to tv.


for the longest time, I thought herbie is a daddy! :oops:

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Re: Cold Wars (with your spouse)

Postby Herbie » Sun Oct 02, 2011 6:16 pm

err... sorry to disappoint u, herbie is a mummy. :dancing:

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Re: Cold Wars (with your spouse)

Postby Pooh Bear » Sun Oct 02, 2011 10:29 pm

Only once, triggered by a family outing. abt 2 days for me. it was a horrible 2 days though. I swore never to get into a old war again. worst than quarrel. Not worth it at all.

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Re: Cold Wars (with your spouse)

Postby Baby39 » Mon Oct 03, 2011 8:46 am

Then mine is doom. My cold wars are so frequent and current one (still ongoing) we have not spoken or have been ignoring each other for a month.

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Re: Cold Wars (with your spouse)

Postby Herbie » Mon Oct 03, 2011 9:02 am

Baby39 wrote:Then mine is doom. My cold wars are so frequent and current one (still ongoing) we have not spoken or have been ignoring each other for a month.


Communucationis very important. Shld have good chat with each other and liearn to forgive and forget and move on....

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