Carrots and sticks

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Carrots and sticks

Postby millan » Fri Nov 11, 2011 5:16 pm

Hi,
Would like to find out what u do if your kids did not follow rules:

1) overshot computer time , ban or deduct future hours
2) if the kid does not consumed the entitlement can carry forward ?

Thks

millan
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Re: Carrots and sticks

Postby Jennifer » Mon Nov 14, 2011 9:51 pm

I enable password on the laptop I share with my P4 boy and also set parental control for his acct login - days & time. No chance for him to play anyday or anytime he likes.

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Re: Carrots and sticks

Postby CloudeeDaz » Fri Nov 18, 2011 8:39 am

millan wrote:Hi,
Would like to find out what u do if your kids did not follow rules:

1) overshot computer time , ban or deduct future hours
2) if the kid does not consumed the entitlement can carry forward ?

Thks


1) ban them? no, so far I hv not ban them for exceeding their play time.But, they do get lots of :rant: :rant: Normally, 5 or 10 mins before their play time is up. i will remind them abt it, sort of to psych them up first :smile:

2) I do allow them.Or they may think " die, die must play. Otherwise will expire!" :laugh:

That said, no 2 families' parenting styles are identical, and no 2 kids will behavior or response in the same way.
We can only see, hear or read about what others do when they are in the same situation as us, and then adapt it for our own use :smile:

cheers!

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