Another broken marriage
Posted: Mon Dec 26, 2011 11:03 pm
Here's my story....One Sunday morning, the house was dirty, asking him to help out with moping before breakfast. Not happy to do housework, otw for breakfast, husband picks up a fight saying I'm avoiding his parents for breakfast (which is not true as just last week I bring the kids to his parents while he was working), tried to keep cool and not to qurrel with him, instead, he keep on his nagging n scolding even husher while in the car.
Fed up, I told him I'm not going and left without home keys. I went to cool down and when I return, no one was at hm, called him he said he will be back in a while. I waited nearby for 3 hours, no calls. I told him dun bother anymore and decided to stay away for a day. he only made one call which i rejected. He then call my parents and made everyone worried except him. The rest of the missed calls were by my family members and not a single one from him. Later on I send a sms to my mum to inf I was fine.
Since then we are sleeping separately. Chirstmas eve, he inf at night he need to work. Who would work on chirstmas eve? While we were having fun with the kids, he spolied the fun by leaving for "work". Later I found out he did not went to work, but went to his parents place to celebrate chirstmas!!and him being 'the middle child, trying his best to please his parents any chance he could while we became the outsider.
Next, his elder sister, not married and always expect his attention. she already tried to break us up once when we were still bf & gf. She is staying with us(super wrong move) and whenever we qurrel, instead of talking to his brother, she will try to "help" him showing that without me, she can help out with the kids. staying so comfortably, she now refuse to leave, as we have inform that she can stay till my son enters primary one which is 1 week time.
I'm too sick of this man. He didn't treat me as his family anymore. My kids are still young, I really do not know what to do? He always speaks to them very hush and impatient (son is following his suits). I can't leave without the kids. I've already ask for separation and he did not reject. He only ask if we can be together for the seek of our kids. Last time, I will be soft hearted and move on, but this time, I really want to get out of this relationship with him. And since I ask to go separate ways, he expect me to solve the issue on settling the kids and blaming me for not providing a complete home for the kids!
Disappointed and sad.
Fed up, I told him I'm not going and left without home keys. I went to cool down and when I return, no one was at hm, called him he said he will be back in a while. I waited nearby for 3 hours, no calls. I told him dun bother anymore and decided to stay away for a day. he only made one call which i rejected. He then call my parents and made everyone worried except him. The rest of the missed calls were by my family members and not a single one from him. Later on I send a sms to my mum to inf I was fine.
Since then we are sleeping separately. Chirstmas eve, he inf at night he need to work. Who would work on chirstmas eve? While we were having fun with the kids, he spolied the fun by leaving for "work". Later I found out he did not went to work, but went to his parents place to celebrate chirstmas!!and him being 'the middle child, trying his best to please his parents any chance he could while we became the outsider.
Next, his elder sister, not married and always expect his attention. she already tried to break us up once when we were still bf & gf. She is staying with us(super wrong move) and whenever we qurrel, instead of talking to his brother, she will try to "help" him showing that without me, she can help out with the kids. staying so comfortably, she now refuse to leave, as we have inform that she can stay till my son enters primary one which is 1 week time.
I'm too sick of this man. He didn't treat me as his family anymore. My kids are still young, I really do not know what to do? He always speaks to them very hush and impatient (son is following his suits). I can't leave without the kids. I've already ask for separation and he did not reject. He only ask if we can be together for the seek of our kids. Last time, I will be soft hearted and move on, but this time, I really want to get out of this relationship with him. And since I ask to go separate ways, he expect me to solve the issue on settling the kids and blaming me for not providing a complete home for the kids!
Disappointed and sad.