My husband is addicted to his handphone :(

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My husband is addicted to his handphone :(

Postby missk » Thu Apr 26, 2012 10:31 am

Heya, I am a newbie. My husband is completely addited to his phone. He wakes up early and sleeps late to play with it, and even in bed, in the middle of the night. And thats not mentioning throughout the whole day, any chance he gets. He gets irritated if he needs to look after our little boy for more than half an hour, and even if he does, he will still be playing his hp! We are both ft working parents with no maid, except a part time helper on one morning. Most of the time, I end up having to retrieve mylittle boy from trouble because he had wandered off when daddy was supposed to watch him. And no money for guessing what daddy was doing at that time! Arugh! How do you deal with this? I have mentioned before but unless I kick a super big fuss, its him and his beloved phone all day long! :frustrated: :frustrated:

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Re: My husband is addicted to his handphone :(

Postby verykiasu2010 » Thu Apr 26, 2012 12:00 pm

suggest you dress up as mobile phone
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Re: My husband is addicted to his handphone :(

Postby fightingmom » Thu Apr 26, 2012 12:42 pm

verykiasu2010 wrote:suggest you dress up as mobile phone

:rotflmao:

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Re: My husband is addicted to his handphone :(

Postby fightingmom » Thu Apr 26, 2012 12:47 pm

Text him if you need his help - he will see the message since he is always with his hp. But seriously, he is playing games or replying messages ?

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Re: My husband is addicted to his handphone :(

Postby LOLMum » Thu Apr 26, 2012 2:11 pm

throw it away without him knowing.

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Re: My husband is addicted to his handphone :(

Postby northernstar » Thu Apr 26, 2012 2:47 pm

is your hubby a young man in his 20s? i guess such men are like that cos we live in an IT era... i also play games sometimes when my hubby feeds my DD or is around to help look after her.

how old is your son? just curious :smile:

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Re: My husband is addicted to his handphone :(

Postby missk » Thu Apr 26, 2012 7:42 pm

northernstar wrote:is your hubby a young man in his 20s? i guess such men are like that cos we live in an IT era... i also play games sometimes when my hubby feeds my DD or is around to help look after her.

how old is your son? just curious :smile:

Haha, he's young at heart, playing games all day, no he's 30+ .
It would be cute if it didn't mean my son occasionally helping me to umm... Overfeed the fish our sell newspapers to the garang guni.
My kid is 2, going on 16, and into everything, including operating printers, computers and washing machines. And oh yes, toys.

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Re: My husband is addicted to his handphone :(

Postby missk » Thu Apr 26, 2012 7:48 pm

fightingmom wrote:
verykiasu2010 wrote:suggest you dress up as mobile phone

:rotflmao:

Ok, tomorrow I will disguise myself as the new iPad, and m :celebrate: y son as an iPhone.

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Re: My husband is addicted to his handphone :(

Postby auntieM » Thu Apr 26, 2012 9:01 pm

missk wrote:
fightingmom wrote:
verykiasu2010 wrote:suggest you dress up as mobile phone

:rotflmao:

Ok, tomorrow I will disguise myself as the new iPad, and m :celebrate: y son as an iPhone.

Aiyoh.. :rotflmao:
Let's hope you won't 'heat up' as fast ..

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Re: My husband is addicted to his handphone :(

Postby smartmummy » Thu Apr 26, 2012 11:20 pm

May I know what kind of game?
some games that needed to go often so better stop playing.
Some games that you can show off ur intelligence like jewelgame .... it make him to run after it.So better stop playing by himself or u remove the game package,he may beat u in anger as he so addicted.So firstly talk to him,ask him some qns like does it help u in anyway?
Why are u playing this?
If it is hobby choose a game and make sure not necessarily go everyday.
If you can't control you so better to stop for the baby.

I did like that,I really can't control myself so I remove the game from my computer.Then for my son.Luckily my DH not game addictor but he live on his own world.Now better.

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