Feedback from wife

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Feedback from wife

Postby lasery2k » Tue Sep 25, 2012 2:37 pm

Hi ladies,

not sure how to name the title, but it's a platform where you can pour your grumbles and unhappiness regarding your husbands/ partners here..

starting with me:

met DH at a friend wedding and me (bridesmaid) n him (bestman)...totally don't like each other as i feel he's a chao ah beng..while he thinks i m a Ms.stuck up..but after going out a few times with the same grp of friends, we slowly get to know each other more..

he's those typical MCP..but scared of wife at home..but when outside he can be freaking mean with his words n try to boss me around... :stompfeet:

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Re: Feedback from wife

Postby verykiasumummy » Tue Sep 25, 2012 6:01 pm

it sounds like u hv more complaints about ur dh rather than sharing ur dating process..

haha...

any grumblings to share instead?

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Re: Feedback from wife

Postby kiddo » Tue Sep 25, 2012 7:20 pm

lazery2k, :hi5:

You n DH must be a very young couple not past 26 years old ?? :?
Man is work-in-progress take a long time to learn where
relationship is concern .... :hugs:
have patience ...give him time ............ :celebrate:

You have a lot of work to do ...not him with him ... :snuggles:

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Re: Feedback from wife

Postby Joule » Tue Sep 25, 2012 9:09 pm

lasery2k wrote:Hi ladies,

he's those typical MCP..but scared of wife at home..but when outside he can be freaking mean with his words n try to boss me around... :stompfeet:


I don't like this kind of man.

Last time my buddy go and make fun of his wife in front of us friends

I text him later in the night to scold him.

I is irritated by this kind of man. My inner beng is angry.

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Re: Feedback from wife

Postby lasery2k » Wed Sep 26, 2012 9:41 am

hi kiddo,

mi 28, DH 30...not very young also lah..this is a small part of it only..

haven complaint on how he treated mi when we just gotten married n all his lies and stuffs...got mi into depression before n after birth that i almost wanna divorce when we are just 3mths into marriage..

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Re: Feedback from wife

Postby lasery2k » Wed Sep 26, 2012 9:46 am

joule,

outside i usually will give him face...but i also got my boundaries de...i don't mind he make fun of me infront of his friends..but once it get too overboard..i will open my mouth n counter back..he usually will pick tt hint up as okie time to tone down.

but once get home..he will die loh...*evil laugh*

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Re: Feedback from wife

Postby lasery2k » Wed Sep 26, 2012 9:50 am

kiasumummy,

some examples that he did when we jus got married..

he resign from his job and job hop when i m preg..until a point he lies and say he's working but fact is staying at home playing game. he even tell his mum n maid to lie to me..

his boss called my HP / drop me a e-mail at my office e-mail to tell mi n ask if he's still want to work or not. at that time i m already at my second tri..

above is 2 of the shitty stuffs which he did.

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Re: Feedback from wife

Postby straffan23 » Wed Sep 26, 2012 10:12 am

Lasery2k: You gotta tell your man that the era of the "big man" is a thing in the past! Now people are all into boasting about their wife's achievements and capabilities, lah... Otherwise it makes him look silly. <where's all the emoticons??>

Anyway, since you are so "garang" at home, need to motivate him from time to time, bah... Give him some re$ponsibilitie$ and ta$k$, something to do, something to look forward to. Your man, you should know best.

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Re: Feedback from wife

Postby MMM » Wed Sep 26, 2012 10:28 am

Complaint - Drop the ipad and coach the kids. I am not a superwoman. :frustrated:

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Re: Feedback from wife

Postby verykiasumummy » Wed Sep 26, 2012 1:17 pm

lasery2k wrote:kiasumummy,

some examples that he did when we jus got married..

he resign from his job and job hop when i m preg..until a point he lies and say he's working but fact is staying at home playing game. he even tell his mum n maid to lie to me..

his boss called my HP / drop me a e-mail at my office e-mail to tell mi n ask if he's still want to work or not. at that time i m already at my second tri..

above is 2 of the shitty stuffs which he did.


why did he want to lie about working?

did u talk to him about this? how did u find out in the end??

is he also having some pre-pregnancy depression or what??

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