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Does it matter if it's based on ROM or traditional? Celebrate both

I forgot when was my traditional and ROM dates

SAHM_TAN wrote:Does it matter if it's based on ROM or traditional? Celebrate both

I forgot when was my traditional and ROM dates

Mine are 1 year apart.

We do not hv the habit of celebrating every year.

But I would like to celebrate the 20th year with sth difference, so need to know what's the norm.

Edit: our 20th anniver is not this year, asking in advance for planning purpose

SAHM_TAN wrote:Does it matter if it's based on ROM or traditional? Celebrate both

I forgot when was my traditional and ROM dates

i remember.... but dh never. i'll always remind him then he'd say "oh, izzit?"

end of story.

we never celebrates so it doesn't matter if it's based on ROM or traditional date or even it's based on both

but i'd think should be based on ROM. legally married.

Jennifer wrote:

SAHM_TAN wrote:Does it matter if it's based on ROM or traditional? Celebrate both

I forgot when was my traditional and ROM dates

Mine are 1 year apart.

We do not hv the habit of celebrating every year.

But I would like to celebrate the 20th year with sth difference, so need to know what's the norm.

on your 20th wedding anniversary, it's considered china/platinum yr.

Wow! 20 years.

My ROM and Tea ceremony were a year apart as well. We settled on the tea ceremony date as our anniversary as that was when I officially moved out of my childhood home into our marital home.

SAHM_TAN wrote:

Jennifer wrote:

SAHM_TAN wrote:Does it matter if it's based on ROM or traditional? Celebrate both

I forgot when was my traditional and ROM dates

Mine are 1 year apart.

We do not hv the habit of celebrating every year.

But I would like to celebrate the 20th year with sth difference, so need to know what's the norm.

on your 20th wedding anniversary, it's considered china/platinum yr.

Sorri sorri, not yet

Funz wrote: Wow! 20 years.

My ROM and Tea ceremony were a year apart as well. We settled on the tea ceremony date as our anniversary as that was when I officially moved out of my childhood home into our marital home.

sorri sorri, not yet

I ask in advance only.

If based on ROM, it would be next year Jun.

SAHM_TAN wrote:20th wedding anniversary, it's considered china/platinum yr.

for the info.

Let us know when you decide which yr, will congratulate you again