Agree with the 2 of them.. couples influence each other.. I see hubby actively taking care of his fitness and appearance.. I also become diligent in that aspect.. motivation works..ammonite wrote:Agree with Janet.janet_lee88 wrote:1) go for a haircut...you will feel good too.
2) change your dressing...apply lipstick, put on perfume. BE different.
3) try to cut down carbo intake during dinner.
4) don't nag at him...close 2 eyes at times.
Don't be so upset by it. He didn't say it to you. Just quietly update your looks and start a healthier lifestyle. Partners influence each other. I started making time to exercise again because of DH's influence, and he started a skincare regime because of my influence. We don't criticize each other, just observing the improvement in each other is enough motivation. I will ask him for exercise tips and he will ask me to go and buy scrub with him. It is also a good example for our kids.
I also try to influence hubby to have a balanced diet.. instead of having fastfood..