Affairs after Marriage
Posted: Tue Aug 19, 2014 11:03 pm
Hi all need some advise, about my sister,, i don't know who to talk to so i thought lets post here.now my sister she is in her middle 30s, married for 13 yrs and has 1 child.
She is a fun loving ,happy type of girl who can smile all the time,,as for her hubby ,he is quiet type,doesn't talk much, ( wasn't like this last time ) ..even sex life is going down the drain ,,her hubby has diabetes and seems like their sex session doesn't last more than 15mins, and my sister doesn't mind about that ,,but its just that she is not feeling loved and has spoken to her hubby about her feeling lonely and he is not spending time with her. but seems like he takes it too lightly to bother.
Now she met someone online ,and the new guy is always on wassup with her , both of them have lots of things in common and he makes her happy,, that guy is not a local and he will be coming to singapore next month. she wants to meet him ..I advised her not to. .but since i have also seen him online ,i felt that he is sincere about her
She doesn't want her hubby to find out ,and doesn't want her marriage to break but she just wants to feel loved.
That guy is also making plans to shift his business to Singapore.. i told her ok to meet him for a chat and coffee..but seems like she is thinking of getting intimate with him,
What do you ladies think ? do you think its ok for her to keep this relationship a secret ? She has been tolerating her husband for many years now, He is not a bad husband but he just doesn't know how to keep his wife happy and even if he knows he is the type to play ignorance
She is a fun loving ,happy type of girl who can smile all the time,,as for her hubby ,he is quiet type,doesn't talk much, ( wasn't like this last time ) ..even sex life is going down the drain ,,her hubby has diabetes and seems like their sex session doesn't last more than 15mins, and my sister doesn't mind about that ,,but its just that she is not feeling loved and has spoken to her hubby about her feeling lonely and he is not spending time with her. but seems like he takes it too lightly to bother.
Now she met someone online ,and the new guy is always on wassup with her , both of them have lots of things in common and he makes her happy,, that guy is not a local and he will be coming to singapore next month. she wants to meet him ..I advised her not to. .but since i have also seen him online ,i felt that he is sincere about her
She doesn't want her hubby to find out ,and doesn't want her marriage to break but she just wants to feel loved.
That guy is also making plans to shift his business to Singapore.. i told her ok to meet him for a chat and coffee..but seems like she is thinking of getting intimate with him,
What do you ladies think ? do you think its ok for her to keep this relationship a secret ? She has been tolerating her husband for many years now, He is not a bad husband but he just doesn't know how to keep his wife happy and even if he knows he is the type to play ignorance