iRabbit wrote:Parents, let's not fall into the temptation of ranking one sch over another, like it's some sort of competition. In the end (like many have shared before me), what matters most is for our children to go to a sch that best fits their interests and character.
If we care for the happiness of our kids, branding and prestige should never come before their personal interest. For diff kids, their best sch could be NUSH, SOTA, SSS, SST etc.
As for RI, bcoz my boy is from there, I would say that if yours is those who are able to learn independently, has a love of learning beyond the syllabus, is comfortable to be in the company of academically stronger school mates, enjoys a well-balanced education (including sports, leadership training etc), then do give this sch serious consideration.
Of course the above factors would be true in many other top sch, and it's not meant to be a slight at those sch.
Absolutely agree. Selection of sch or any participation shld be based on the participant's interests, capability or personality, not how popular the sch and everyone heading towards & more followers. Sure some schools kept producing top products, at the end of the journey, ppl look at some of the 'high' scores but nobody noticed those who didn't fit in the culture or fall behind.
When we attended the NUSH Briefing, all the mktg talk did not paint the picture where pursuing grades and the lack of choice for CCA (take some discerning to figure out what they don't say) and other preferred outlets to complement some individuals' need to be engaged in their favourite art or music or sports, etc before they get refreshed enough to excel academically. Every individual heads towards success thro different process. It cannot be one size fits all. So, I think at least we recognized there are more than 1 top schools & many more just as good ones. Some chooses culture & value differently than just academic, some might slow down to catch up with more depth.
I'm aware in all these top schools, there were top students who left them midst way. Many asked to leave and not given space and chance to reach the goal. Yet some schools with very dedicated educators (I accord them the honorable recognition as educators) monitor so closely performance of their students & analyze root cause with objective of helping students to get extra remedial to set them back on track or recalibrate stepping down e.g. fr IP to Express with aim for student to get back on track to IP. At least there is no counsel to "apply poly or ano school" out of current sch. A lot of these are not publicly announced esp fr top sch. So it appears the top left with high number of performers & space for higher performers to join in Y3, etc. You know how one leads to ano....
I interviewed a batch of peers (fellow pri sch frds) some gone to RI, ACSI, & NUSH. They gave me the impression I derive my perception. The words of one student - "RI very academically driven, NUSH not much life but lots of projects with scientists & co-projects with professors, ACSI a lot of life & space to be independent owise the teachers chat & coach more, if cannot hack it, VPs step in to work us back on track then some got the botak to hv one round of chat with his chaps!" It's an eye-opener fr the teen's perspective. He's a happy bloke.
So hear your child out. They shld be involved in decision making & freedom to choose & take responsibility for it. Once they buy-in to the school they eventually joins, they will take more ownership to the outcome of success or failure in their studies. No point push a child to stressful environment, unless they can take the rigors of the competition & push them off the clift.
JMHO & pls feel free to differ.