Will you allow your maid to be alone with hubby at home?

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Will you allow your maid to be alone with hubby at home?

Postby flyfree » Fri Jul 22, 2011 11:18 pm

Dear all,

Is it "safe" to let maid be alone at home with hubby?

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Re: Will you allow your maid to be alone with hubby at home?

Postby nms1 » Mon Jul 25, 2011 5:58 pm

Of course there is a risk if she is the kind who wants to cause trouble but hopefully you have employed someone who you can trust - or believe you can. It would be very difficult to avoid her ever being at home alone with him and probably cause you a lot of inconvenience. Look at it this way, if she wants to cause trouble it is just as easy to accuse you of harming her as it is to accuse your husband of doing something inappropriate. I am assuming that you trust your husband 100% ;-)

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Re: Will you allow your maid to be alone with hubby at home?

Postby jtoh » Mon Jul 25, 2011 6:36 pm

Do you not trust your husband? ;)

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Re: Will you allow your maid to be alone with hubby at home?

Postby UncleLim » Wed Jul 27, 2011 1:52 pm

flyfree wrote:Dear all,

Is it "safe" to let maid be alone at home with hubby?



Safe for who?

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Re: Will you allow your maid to be alone with hubby at home?

Postby jtoh » Wed Jul 27, 2011 4:56 pm

UncleLim wrote:
flyfree wrote:Dear all,

Is it "safe" to let maid be alone at home with hubby?



Safe for who?


:yikes:

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Re: Will you allow your maid to be alone with hubby at home?

Postby chubby08 » Wed Jul 27, 2011 5:00 pm

depend on whom do you trust???

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Re: Will you allow your maid to be alone with hubby at home?

Postby BeContented » Thu Jul 28, 2011 10:50 am

jtoh wrote:
UncleLim wrote:
flyfree wrote:Dear all,

Is it "safe" to let maid be alone at home with hubby?



Safe for who?


:yikes:



ha ha.....yah, safe for who?
After reading this thread earlier on, when I had to go out recently leaving my exhausted DH to sleep at home (he had to settle some stuff and didn't sleep much the night before) alone with the maid, told him to lock the room door for safety reasons :rotflmao:

This maid claimed her last stint was only 1 yr cos' she took the opportunity to leave when her grandma was ill.....claimed real reason the male employer tried to be funny with her when no one around.........BUT but but....seriously, looking at her find it a bit hard to believe lah. So better be on-guard :nunchuk: :laugh:

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Re: Will you allow your maid to be alone with hubby at home?

Postby tankee » Thu Jul 28, 2011 11:28 am

I am a guy and if we have a maid, I wouldn't want to be alone at home with her.

It does not matter whether anything did happen, but if she accuse me of anything, it will be her words against mine. And guys tend to be on the losing end in such cases. Why take the risk?

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Re: Will you allow your maid to be alone with hubby at home?

Postby Nebbermind » Thu Jul 28, 2011 12:58 pm

hahah...

Officer : So what did your sir asked u to do?

Maid : Sir asked me to strip!!

Man : I said SWEEP, not STRIP!!! :sweat:

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Re: Will you allow your maid to be alone with hubby at home?

Postby BeContented » Thu Jul 28, 2011 2:49 pm

Nebbermind wrote:hahah...

Officer : So what did your sir asked u to do?

Maid : Sir asked me to strip!!

Man : I said SWEEP, not STRIP!!! :sweat:

:rotflmao:

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