In-law problems?

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If you have a choice, would you stay with your in laws?

Yes
55
7%
No
705
93%
 
Total votes: 760

Gilian039
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Re: In-law problems?

Post by Gilian039 » Wed Apr 10, 2019 11:13 am

There are in-laws who don't respect your privacy; they show up unannounced and just assume they are always welcome. They also lack boundaries when it comes to intimate details, good communication is good, but oversharing can lead to awkwardness, embarrassment, and resentment.

janet88
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Re: In-law problems?

Post by janet88 » Wed Apr 10, 2019 11:19 am

Gilian039 wrote:
Wed Apr 10, 2019 11:13 am
There are in-laws who don't respect your privacy; they show up unannounced and just assume they are always welcome. They also lack boundaries when it comes to intimate details, good communication is good, but oversharing can lead to awkwardness, embarrassment, and resentment.
those who drop in unannounced can be rather annoying.
no matter what, the relationship between parents and in-laws will always be different.

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Re: In-law problems?

Post by Totyanik12 » Fri Apr 12, 2019 9:21 pm

but in general a very interesting topic

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Re: In-law problems?

Post by Janet32 » Fri May 24, 2019 10:26 am

Problem with in laws will never be gone just like the problems as a couple.. I think it boils down to how we handle each situation and problems. As long as you handle the problem, then it should be okay.

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Re: In-law problems?

Post by hxranmay5 » Sat Jun 15, 2019 6:02 pm

there are always problems............


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Re: In-law problems?

Post by Michy79 » Fri Jun 28, 2019 9:52 am

hxranmay5 wrote:
Sat Jun 15, 2019 6:02 pm
there are always problems............
This is so true. There's no such thing as a perfect life, there will always be a problem no matter what.

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Re: In-law problems?

Post by sweetbaby » Fri Jun 28, 2019 1:41 pm

Agree... Stayed with inlaws for awhile after we came back from overseas. Some can treat their DIL same as their own daughters, some cant.....

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Re: In-law problems?

Post by pokoyoko » Thu Jul 04, 2019 11:30 am

sweetbaby wrote:
Fri Jun 28, 2019 1:41 pm
Agree... Stayed with inlaws for awhile after we came back from overseas. Some can treat their DIL same as their own daughters, some cant.....
Which side are yours on? :boogie:

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Re: In-law problems?

Post by janet88 » Thu Jul 04, 2019 11:53 am

sweetbaby wrote:
Fri Jun 28, 2019 1:41 pm
Agree... Stayed with inlaws for awhile after we came back from overseas. Some can treat their DIL same as their own daughters, some cant.....
not many treat DILs as own daughters...but some DILs are hard to get along with.
look after the grandchildren but dictate to the MIL what to cook and insisting the kids don't eat this and that.

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Re: In-law problems?

Post by sweetbaby » Thu Jul 04, 2019 12:50 pm

pokoyoko wrote:
Thu Jul 04, 2019 11:30 am
sweetbaby wrote:
Fri Jun 28, 2019 1:41 pm
Agree... Stayed with inlaws for awhile after we came back from overseas. Some can treat their DIL same as their own daughters, some cant.....
Which side are yours on? :boogie:
LOL, Lets say the water looks calm but actually frigid cold. I try to keep the interactions to the minimum :siam:

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